Scoobymac21 (original poster new member #83638) posted at 8:58 PM on Saturday, May 3rd, 2025
When your partner is caught out either in a emotional or physical affair what do they admit to? Also what would you describe being physical with the other man ?
Brittn ( member #84766) posted at 9:06 PM on Saturday, May 3rd, 2025
When caught, in my experience, she admitted with what she was caught doing and denied all else. If you catch her making out with a coworker, she is likely to say that this is all she did, and it’s the first time ever. Lots of reasons for that if she wants to preserver her relationship with you. She will try to minimize, I expect. Why wouldn’t she?
What is a physical infidelity? I think romantic hand holding, kissing is full on infidelity, in my opinion. Sex as well, of course.
AnnieOakley ( member #13332) posted at 10:59 PM on Saturday, May 3rd, 2025
Scooby, you asked this same question in your threads last September and October and got several responses.
Why don’t you give us an update as to where you are today.
What has changed?
[This message edited by AnnieOakley at 11:01 PM, Saturday, May 3rd]
Me= BSHim=xWH (did the work & became the man I always thought he was, but it was too late)M=23+,T=27+dday=7/06, 8/09 (pics at a work function), 11/09 VAR, 6/12 Sep'd, 10/14 Divorced."If you are going through hell, keep going."
sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 5:18 PM on Sunday, May 4th, 2025
The question you have to answer is,
'How much of the truth has my WS revealed?'
Annie Oakley hit the bull's eye with her questions.
How are you?
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
